MY WIFE IS CHEATING – HOW CAN I STOP HER?

If you know – or suspect – that your wife is cheating, first off you need to ask yourself, ”
do I really want her back” ? Whether it’s a focus group study or just asking strangers at the mall, most people would answer no – simply because she apparently has no regard for you, no regard for your feelings and no respect for your relationship.
However, admittedly, there are times when unique circumstances or situations arise during the course of our lives, and in some cases – with the right partner – if your wife is cheating, she can be forgiven in such instances.
If you fall into the latter category, there is a good probability that you were neglecting your role as a responsible and loving partner. To prevent this from happening again, you need to be sure that you are :
- Taking the time to spend quality time together (that can be as simple as a weekend movie)
- Not taking her for granted (clean up around the house for her once in a while)
- Spend the occasional day apart (wives need space too! )
- Notice and comment nicely on the small things she does for you (brings you a beer during the game without you asking for it)
- Pay attention to her style and haircut and compliment her on it
- Keep up to date on news and events (lots to talk about and keeps YOU interesting to talk to)
- Cook her a nice dinner & / or take her out from time to time
- Surprise her with some flowers
- Learn what she likes in the bedroom and become a MASTER at it
- Try to look your best and be as attractive as you can be
Like any friendship, partnership or relationship, a marriage all comes down to paying attention to the details and being receptive to new ideas to keep things FUN. It’s a fine line to walk on, and not everything that you’ll do will be 100% correct all the time, but it’s something that you should know well enough to understand how you should be acting to keep her interested – besides, your wife will appreciate the effort.
With that in mind, if you start to neglect some of these things, chances are you’ll be dealing with a wife that is cheating on you again, and again, as she will not be getting from you what she needs from a partner.

WHY YOUR WIFE IS CHEATING
Studies have shown that most wives cheat out of frustration – from a monotonous life, to being unhappy with themselves and their body image, even from the feelings of being in a dead-end relationship with a non-loving partner – DON’T BE THAT PARTNER !
In general, a woman’s connection with a partner is more than the superficial. Naturally, you need to look as good as you can to get her interested, but once that connection is made, it’s more of a commitment for the woman to settle down with a partner (male or female) compared to that of a man – which means that she’s with you for who you are.
As a result, if your wife is cheating – you need to ask yourself, “how have I let her down” ? If you are honest with yourself, and refer to the points mentioned earlier in this article, I’m sure you will know the answer to that question quite quickly.

OK, I UNDESTAND WHY MY WIFE IS CHEATING, BUT HOW CAN I FIX IT?

This is an easy one – after looking at the possible causes and some of the solutions, be pro-active ! Be sure to go that extra yard and be engaging and fun to be around !
Granted, make sure that you do NOT bow to her every command – as that will lead to more “my wife is cheating again” scenarios, but again, it all comes down to that fine line of knowing what is too much, what is too little, and what is just right – don’t kill her in kindness, and yet at the same time, don’t be a jerk. The best option is to just be someone that YOU would like to be around – usually that will be someone that is light, interesting, funny and yet considerate and loving.
These are not impossible qualities to learn either – simply by looking up a few funny stories online from time to time and remembering them, or keeping up with the news and current events or just by being a little bit more observant of your surroundings (the world is an interesting place if you take a minute to look), will make you someone that your wife wants to be around.
The result ? You’ll both be in a happy marriage, and you’ll never have to deal with the “I think my wife is cheating” thoughts again – good luck !